men, man

men and cigarettes are normal.
most of people around me,
call them relatives, friends, lecturers or strangers,
smokes.

personally, i have no issues with it.
i mean, i know smoking is bad for health.
not only for the one smoking, but also for people around them.
but looking around seeing people forcing these smokers to instantly smoke,
won't work.

i have some guy friends, who suddenly stop smoking,
cause their girl friends ask them to do so,
or cause their parents threat to cut their expenses if they don't,
and for so many other reasons,
but none of it are their willingness.
which i thought, is not healthy and helping at all.

i mean, to stop doing something that has become part of them,
is like taking away their life.
not unless they are willing to do so.

i see some of them managed to stop smoking while their forces
or so called the reason why they stop smoking.
and once the person is not around, they'll start smoking again.
and sometimes, it turn out to be,
they even smoke more than they used to.
doesn't that sounds worst?

so i have this believe that,
i won't force these smokers to stop smoking.
but i'll let them know,
i can't stand too much of smokes,
and i'll ask them to stop smoking once in a while.
because i believe, there will be a turning point,
when they will finally stop to smoke.
and i'm lucky, since i know arjuna smokes,
he didn't actually smokes in front of me.
i mean, i knew he smokes somewhere else.
and for having such respect towards me, thank you. :)

other than using force,
there are much other ways to do so,
and yeah, through the campaign,
advertisement,
somehow they will have their own self-conscious to stop smoking.
right?
forcing wouldn't work.
use other alternative.
;)


and babah, smoking is not good for health, you know?
same goes with drinking coffee too much.
especially the 3 in 1 you used to have nowadays.
lets figure out something healthier.
like swimming and jungle-trekking like we used to.
and, last but not least,

Happy Father's Day, Babah.
you know you will always be our hero.